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Thoughts About ‘Not Working’ – Saturdays

Saturday both loses and gains, when you no longer have a full time job. You don’t have the excitement of not having to drag yourself out of bed to commute to somewhere away from your home, to work hard for somebody else, doing things that may not be high in your list of great things in your life, then there’s the sometimes tedious commute back home and busily working at home to keep everything neat enough, and everyone there fed.
Saturday comes along, you can sleep in – luxurious! You’re more in charge of your tasks for the day, and can do things more in tune with what you really want to do (hopefully). You can loaf around, or get stuck into the projects that make your heart and mind sing. And so on.
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When you retire from paid work, the demarkation between weekend and working week is more or less gone for you, you can sleep in and loaf around any, or every day, if you wish. But if you do that, you may lose any actual sense of purpose, if you’re not careful.
For some, their sport gives them that sense of purpose, and you can give your all to your preferred game on Saturday. Or if sport isn’t you ‘thing’ there are many other hobbies you can get stuck into on Saturday, working hard at what you love to do, and still have time for that sleep in, if wanted, because you’re more likely to be doing ‘your thing’ closer to home than a paid job might be.
If you have are a writer, as I am, you may have deadlines, editors waiting on your next book, things you have to do to promote your previous book written, and these things may have to be done on days of the weekend, possibly a Saturday …
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But of course, that Saturday work can bring in book sales, or payment for workshops or other promotional duties. Book signings and sales, what happy work that can be, connecting with your readers!
Freelance writing, which can feel like not really working at all, because you’re doing what you love doing the most in life, you’re writing because you love it, not because your a paid writer.
For many writers, the money earnt is far less, than what they would ever be paid in a full time job, working for someone, or something, else. Working for ‘the man’. But doing what they love makes it all worthwhile for them, despite the lower earnings.
If you’re a freelance writer, writing a book with or without a publisher waiting for you to finish, Saturday may come and go, with you barely noticing, because that book you’re busily bringing into the world is the most important thing in your head.
You might find your characters intrude in every quiet moment you have, demanding you stop what you’re ‘supposed to’ be doing, and even if you were going to give yourself a break on a Saturday, after working hard on that novel, or whatever, during the working week, your characters demand you get back to work.
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So on Saturday you may not have time for the normal ‘Saturday’ things, sports, or other hobby stuff, not when that book demands you put your focus into that.
And of course, for many people Saturday is when they have the time to do the shopping for the household. But when your weekdays are free from having to go to work, you can go and do the shopping on whichever day you want to.
You’ll find it far easier, and less stressful, with more and closer car parks available to you. There will be fewer people in the shops, so once you have all you need, you will get served more promptly, at the checkout.
Quicker, easier, but sometimes the shops may not be as well stocked as they may be on the busier of Saturday, depending on what time you do your big shop. Decisions, decisions, if you’re a writer, you can look at the realities and make your own choices. Shop on Saturday, or another day, it’s up to you!
So being a writer, whether to do a ‘working day’ and ‘weekend day’ or not, is up to you, and maybe your bank balance – you are a writer, you write, words are your tools for work, and the things you love the most, writing, shaping the words, making sense of life, and putting it, ultimately onto a page for others to read.
I say, rejoice in your choice, whatever it is!

 

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Fab Feb Writing Prompts – Day Eight

Is there a reason for everything that happens, I’m wondering. Sometimes things just happen, like it or not, and all you can do, is try to find the good in what has happened, and deal with it as best you can.

Whatever the answer is to the question, is there ever a better word, for the parent of an endlessly enquiring child, than “Because …” Because it just is, because I said so, because it’s the rule, the law, the govenment says so. Because.

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(Mallala Mayor Mark Wasley, local government on Australia Day, small government in action)

And if we remember our own childhood, how frustrating , yet exciting to have to go and find your own answers to your demanding questions. To find things out, to know that the stars come out at night, for reasons that are known, and that we too, can further study more about such things, and take our questions to university, and learn so many of the answers to the questions in our mind.

Sometimes, the questions are not always properly answered, but ignored by pressured parents with a cheat’s answer of “just because” or “because I said so”. Is that ever going to be a satisfying answer? No, and the answer of because, may become the very thing the questioner needs, to prompt them to look into it htmselves. 

The satisfying knowledge that because x, then y, is satisfying knowledge, with it being a way to build up further knowledge, having a lifetime ‘Becauses’ as you live and experience new things. Every new idea, or journey, or task, can bring answers to questions … 

The answers, the ‘becauses’, give you a sense of having a handle on life – as in, my dog likes to chase creatures, because she is a sight hound, and sight hounds like to chase and catch things, it’s in their genes.

 

MY BECAUSE POEM

Because we live, we will die

Because we love, we may sigh

Because we grieve, we will cry

Because we think, we question why …

 

So, the prompt for today, is Because – think on it, and come up with your own creative writing response. I wrote the little 4 line rhyming poem above, as an example, but I expect you will produce something much better than my own little effort, and I hope I can do something else, that’s much better than that, too.